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I was formerly the principal of Skinner Road
School, a kindergarten through grade 5 elementary school in the suburban
town of Vernon in eastern Connecticut. For several years our school had
focused on good character traits by using Respect Assemblies, where we recognized
children who demonstrated trustworthiness, caring, good citizenship, honesty,
fairness, and respect. In 2001-02, drawing impetus from our new mission
statement, we developed a school-wide program based on the tenets of the
"Don't Laugh at Me" curriculum and focused on creating a climate
of respect throughout the entire school community.
The "Don't Laugh at Me" program has several components. First,
the staff was committed to a "zero tolerance" attitude for four
categories of behavior: 1) physical aggression, 2) verbal aggression/harassment,
3) teasing, and 4) disrespect. The staff developed common rules which were
posted in critical places throughout the building, such as the cafeteria,
playground, bathrooms and hallways, and also on the school buses, in order
to establish clear and consistent expectations for behavior. In addition,
the school adopted a new recess policy and revised procedures that made
adult responses to incidences of negative student behavior more timely and
appropriate.
For all grades K - 5, a major part of the plan involved the implementation
of weekly classroom activities that focused on four themes: 1) expressing
feelings, 2) caring, compassion, and cooperation, 3) resolving conflicts
creatively, and 4) celebrating diversity. A variety of activities were selected
that were geared for each grade level. Assemblies were scheduled on a regular
basis in order to highlight the activities in each grade and also to reaffirm
the school's commitment to the "Don't Laugh at Me" program. Everyone
within the whole school community was considered a partner and was invited,
including parents, paraprofessionals, secretaries, administrators, custodians
and bus drivers.
Supporting this initiative, teachers in the intermediate grades paired with
primary teachers to plan monthly activities with their "Buddy Classes,"
and every child was partnered with another. Activities included making "Hugs
for Heroes" of 9/11 by creating a huge flag of appreciation for the
heroes of our country, the firefighters, police officers, and ordinary citizens
who were true heroes. We also made holiday cards for nursing homes, and
we shared presentations of the 5th grade's "Wax Museum" of famous
American characters, a holiday concert that focused on the diversity/unity
themes and included Chinese New Year, German traditions, Hanukkah, and others.
Many of these school events were video-taped and shown on Public Access
TV, beautifully highlighting the diverse population at Skinner Road School.
A grant for $18,500 to further develop a positive school climate and increase
respect for others was gratefully received. Part of the grant was used for
the purchase of "Low Ropes" equipment that was designed to encourage
the development of cooperation and leadership skills of at-risk students,
as well as for the training for all children during physical education.
An after-school program that focused on academic, social and team-building
skills was developed with an inclusive partnership of parents. Additionally,
a musical component was created that fit with the themes of the program.
Not only did our students become deeply involved in developing respectful
attitudes and behaviors toward others, but the adults in the building began
working with other staff members, appreciating each other's uniqueness and
developing new relationships. Parents and substitute teachers commented
favorably about the "new and improved atmosphere" within the building.
Surveys were completed by teachers and paraprofessionals, and the majority
felt that the "Don't Laugh at Me" program was an overwhelming
success.
Now, finding new ways to expand on the themes of the program is continuing,
as is a fine-tuning of the activities. Skinner Road School is a happier,
more caring and more productive school, thanks to this outstanding program.
And we'll be watching those test scores since we're sure they will rise
as a result!
Frances V. Bilodeau, Principal |